I am so pleased to announce to you... a few of my new services...that I know in my heart...will add more meaning...to the way you celebrate milestone events in your life...and give you... a deeper connection to your own feminine spirit.
I am aware that women from every walk of life...are seeking ways to return to a more simple...heart based way of living...including stepping away from mass produced...high cost...and cookie cutter celebrations. Women are longing... instead... to fill their spirits and hearts...with authentic...creative...and spirit filled celebrations... that include honoring milestone changes and transitions that any woman...experiences in her lifetime.
For many years I facilitated locally... personal Blessings... which is an old-fashioned... unique celebration that honors a milestone event for you...that signifies an important change in your life as a woman. I experienced first hand how much these Blessings touched women's lives in such a positive way...and made their milestone or personal change a more memorable occasion for them...as well as all the women who were invited...to participate in the Blessing. Perhaps it is the handcrafted... homey feel of a Blessing...the use of your own creativity...or the nostalgic touch... reminiscent of years gone past...or the sharing with other women that personal Blessings resonate...that make these special Blessings...such a life affirming venue that touches a woman's spirit...and always open hearts.
And in a world that is constantly changing...and often at speeds that can leave you feeling disconnected...and pressured...simple traditions that you can practice and share with family and friends...is more important than ever before.
Because I value...and know first hand... how fulfilling...bonding... and heart- opening these traditions are... I have created for you...simple...easy to follow feminine traditions...in the form of personal Blessings... that come to you...in your inbox as an e-course. All you have to do... is read the personal Blessing...you order...follow the simple instructions...and then use your own creativity to add those special touches to make it yours...or to give as a gift... or be the hostess to a loved one or friend.
So take a step back into time..to honor and celebrate... all those special milestone changes as a woman...that are so deserving of lasting memories...with personal Blessings... by Feminine Living Traditions For your Home...Hearth And Heart.
To order... as an e-course...you are offered
Young Lady Coming Of Age
Pregnancy Blessing
Baby Blessing
Home Blessing
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CONSULTATIONS WITH VICTORIA
I now also offer you CONSULTATIONS with the most requested celebrations... that I have facilitated for many years.
My consultations ... via telephone... or upon request via Skype...will give you expert advice on how you can create and plan...a lovely and naturally elegant... HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWER...from start to finish...as well as consult you on how you can plan a MILESTONE BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION of your 30th...40th...50th...and beyond decade birthday...that focuses on paying tribute to your uniqueness and celebrating your life...instead of the usual store bought...cake and ice cream venue.
My consultations can be adapted to hold for a loved one or friend also...so whether you are wanting the Consultation for yourself or another... I will guide and assist you from start to finish...including follow up support...to create the most fulfilling and heart warming experience...for you...that I know will create lasting memories of a lifetime.
To order your Consultation With Victoria
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Celebrate this month with traditions,
Victoria
Friday, May 23, 2014
Saturday, May 3, 2014
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR... HOME...HEARTH... AND HEART MAY 2014
MAY musings...
As I gaze out my kitchen window...into my backyard...I see life and beauty in every nook and corner. The big oak tree my husband planted when we bought this house 15 years ago... is huge now... so strong and beautiful it is... always faithful standing guard in our backyard. A few years ago... a honeysuckle vine found it's way into the branches... and taken root... amongst the leaves... and the honeysuckles fragrance perfumes the air... smelling like an exotic island paradise with each breath I take... when I venture into my yard.
My white roses dance daintily in the breeze... making me smile each time I gaze at them. I planted them myself... nurturing them each long... hot summer here in Texas... including sending them loving energy...and talking to them too... and they have survived... beautifully.
Squirrels dance and romp... under the oak tree...and climb the back fence... faster than I can blink my eyes...and give me constant chuckles... for they are natural clowns. I leave them food each day... unsalted sunflower seeds and nuts... and they stuff their cheeks with them...looking like they could pop...they are so full of the food I leave them.
My herbs... I grow... bring me the greatest pleasure. To me they are priceless Earth jewels...ready to pluck and pick for medicine... culinary use...and healing baths. Or to place in small glass vases...to decorate my home with.
I cannot help but feel a little sad for people who do not believe in a Higher Power... or a God... when I look out at my garden... or pulling weeds...or just sitting outside listening to the quiet sound nature makes. Something amazing...and all powerful and all loving created this immense beauty and wonder. It certainly wasn't humans... it was and has to be something MORE...something beautifully... incredibly... WONDERFUL.
But that's just my belief... in my heart...that I hold close. I do not judge anyone for what they think or feel... it is not my job...or my responsibility... to make others believe in a Higher Power...or have faith... like I do.
I just know... that the Earth is beyond lovely... and a miracle... for me...for you...and for everyone to honor and take care of... because the truth is...the Earth is home. And worthy of nurturing...and being mindful of. No matter what you believe or don't believe created all this wonder...and life sustaining place called Earth.
This month of May... the month we honor Mother's Day...stop for a minute... and become more aware how much Mother Earth... gives you...and your loved ones each day. It is amazing when you stop and ponder... just how MUCH you receive each day from the Earth... that keeps you and those you care about...alive.
Start giving back... and nurture Earth. Do your best to cut back... stop doing...and all together cut out things and products that are harmful to the air...water...land... people and all other living creatures.
Care for the Earth...as you would your own children or family pets... beginning today... and by doing so...you will be making a difference in the world...for today...tomorrow...and for future generations.
Blessings,
Victoria
NATIVE AMERICAN WISDOM
Will you ever begin to understand the meaning
of the very soil beneath your feet? From a grain of
sand to a great mountain, all is sacred. Yesterday
and tomorrow exist upon this continent.
We natives are guardians of this sacred place.
Peter Blue Cloud Mohawk
*** My lovely friend Bea Kunz is an Earth steward in the highest form. Please visit her website and sign up for her monthly newsletter... for a wealth of trusted information about organic and natural living...and helping the environment. www.sagehillfarmsandvintagestore.com
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN MAY
May Day...May 1st...May 5th... Cinco e Mayo...May 10th... Census Day... in Canada ... May 11th...Mother's Day...May 26th...Memorial Day
FACTS ABOUT MAY
FLOWERS... The lily of the valley...rose...and foxglove
GEMS... emerald...malachite...and amber
FULL MOON...is May 14th
DID YOU KNOW?
In ancient Greece it was the custom to perfume every part of the body with a different scent...and mint was used on the arms.
Mint leaves are said to relieve the pain caused by bee and wasp stings.
MOTHER'S DAY CELEBRATION
This Mother's Day... give your Mom life affirming gifts... that will last and make a positive impact. Below are some ideas that would make for lovely... more natural gifts for Mom.
Plant a tree in your Mother's honor or a sweet herb garden.
Take your Mom to a local farmer's market... and purchase organic seasonal veggies and fruits for her to take home and eat.
Take your Mom out to eat at a farm to table eatery... these are amazing and the food is so healthy.
Fill a recycled basket with organic hair and skin products for your Mom...and tuck into the basket a pretty fragrant soy candle...for her to enjoy also.
Buy her a book that has a positive message...and encourages her to grow or heal.
MOTHER YOURSELF
Take time for yourself... and savor alone time as well.
Take time to nurture your feminine spirit... with creative pursuits that you love.
Exercise... and dedicate yourself to this self-care practice.
Meet new people.
Let go of toxic...negative people in your life.
Learn to meditate.
Garden.
Get to know yourself.
Pray.
Walk barefoot.
Eat when you are hungry.
Go to sleep when you are tired.
Read more.
Say "no" to others demands on you... more.
Fall in love with yourself.
Embrace your femininity.
Open yourself to receive.
Be mindful how and who you spend time with.
Be your own best friend.
Take long soaks.
Buy more flowers for yourself.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Plastic is not furniture... so clear out plastic furniture...and when you can...shop flea and antique markets for wood pieces to decorate your home with instead.
This month be sure to nurture your houseplants...by taking them outside...to completely hose off to rid of dust and pests...and give them some much needed fertilizer.
Take different sized recycled glass bottles and jars...and then fill them with different shaped leafs and branches you cut from your own yards.
Mop your floors with pure lemon essential oil...just add about 12 drops to a bucket of warm water...and then mop like you usually do. This wonder essential oil cuts grime and dirt...and your home will smell wonderful.
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
There are so many culinary uses for herbs...and mint is so easy to grow... do not be afraid of growing this versatile herb for yourself.
MINT SAUCE
a small bunch of mint
2 teaspoons sugar
1 tablespoon boiling water
1-2 tablespoons vinegar
Place the mint and sugar on a cutting board and chop finely.Put in a saucepan and add the boiling water.Stir until the sugar has dissolved.Stir in vinegar to taste.
Make at least 1 hour before serving.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Nurture yourself by slowing down... understanding you do not have to be perfect...or please everyone...or do it all.
Take long walks...by yourself...and just take in the beauty of nature.
Next time you see an elderly person with shopping bags... offer to put their bags in their car for them.
Unplug from your electronics for a day... and read...garden...or make a handcrafted item instead.
As I gaze out my kitchen window...into my backyard...I see life and beauty in every nook and corner. The big oak tree my husband planted when we bought this house 15 years ago... is huge now... so strong and beautiful it is... always faithful standing guard in our backyard. A few years ago... a honeysuckle vine found it's way into the branches... and taken root... amongst the leaves... and the honeysuckles fragrance perfumes the air... smelling like an exotic island paradise with each breath I take... when I venture into my yard.
My white roses dance daintily in the breeze... making me smile each time I gaze at them. I planted them myself... nurturing them each long... hot summer here in Texas... including sending them loving energy...and talking to them too... and they have survived... beautifully.
Squirrels dance and romp... under the oak tree...and climb the back fence... faster than I can blink my eyes...and give me constant chuckles... for they are natural clowns. I leave them food each day... unsalted sunflower seeds and nuts... and they stuff their cheeks with them...looking like they could pop...they are so full of the food I leave them.
My herbs... I grow... bring me the greatest pleasure. To me they are priceless Earth jewels...ready to pluck and pick for medicine... culinary use...and healing baths. Or to place in small glass vases...to decorate my home with.
I cannot help but feel a little sad for people who do not believe in a Higher Power... or a God... when I look out at my garden... or pulling weeds...or just sitting outside listening to the quiet sound nature makes. Something amazing...and all powerful and all loving created this immense beauty and wonder. It certainly wasn't humans... it was and has to be something MORE...something beautifully... incredibly... WONDERFUL.
But that's just my belief... in my heart...that I hold close. I do not judge anyone for what they think or feel... it is not my job...or my responsibility... to make others believe in a Higher Power...or have faith... like I do.
I just know... that the Earth is beyond lovely... and a miracle... for me...for you...and for everyone to honor and take care of... because the truth is...the Earth is home. And worthy of nurturing...and being mindful of. No matter what you believe or don't believe created all this wonder...and life sustaining place called Earth.
This month of May... the month we honor Mother's Day...stop for a minute... and become more aware how much Mother Earth... gives you...and your loved ones each day. It is amazing when you stop and ponder... just how MUCH you receive each day from the Earth... that keeps you and those you care about...alive.
Start giving back... and nurture Earth. Do your best to cut back... stop doing...and all together cut out things and products that are harmful to the air...water...land... people and all other living creatures.
Care for the Earth...as you would your own children or family pets... beginning today... and by doing so...you will be making a difference in the world...for today...tomorrow...and for future generations.
Blessings,
Victoria
NATIVE AMERICAN WISDOM
Will you ever begin to understand the meaning
of the very soil beneath your feet? From a grain of
sand to a great mountain, all is sacred. Yesterday
and tomorrow exist upon this continent.
We natives are guardians of this sacred place.
Peter Blue Cloud Mohawk
*** My lovely friend Bea Kunz is an Earth steward in the highest form. Please visit her website and sign up for her monthly newsletter... for a wealth of trusted information about organic and natural living...and helping the environment. www.sagehillfarmsandvintagestore.com
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN MAY
May Day...May 1st...May 5th... Cinco e Mayo...May 10th... Census Day... in Canada ... May 11th...Mother's Day...May 26th...Memorial Day
FACTS ABOUT MAY
FLOWERS... The lily of the valley...rose...and foxglove
GEMS... emerald...malachite...and amber
FULL MOON...is May 14th
DID YOU KNOW?
In ancient Greece it was the custom to perfume every part of the body with a different scent...and mint was used on the arms.
Mint leaves are said to relieve the pain caused by bee and wasp stings.
MOTHER'S DAY CELEBRATION
This Mother's Day... give your Mom life affirming gifts... that will last and make a positive impact. Below are some ideas that would make for lovely... more natural gifts for Mom.
Plant a tree in your Mother's honor or a sweet herb garden.
Take your Mom to a local farmer's market... and purchase organic seasonal veggies and fruits for her to take home and eat.
Take your Mom out to eat at a farm to table eatery... these are amazing and the food is so healthy.
Fill a recycled basket with organic hair and skin products for your Mom...and tuck into the basket a pretty fragrant soy candle...for her to enjoy also.
Buy her a book that has a positive message...and encourages her to grow or heal.
MOTHER YOURSELF
Take time for yourself... and savor alone time as well.
Take time to nurture your feminine spirit... with creative pursuits that you love.
Exercise... and dedicate yourself to this self-care practice.
Meet new people.
Let go of toxic...negative people in your life.
Learn to meditate.
Garden.
Get to know yourself.
Pray.
Walk barefoot.
Eat when you are hungry.
Go to sleep when you are tired.
Read more.
Say "no" to others demands on you... more.
Fall in love with yourself.
Embrace your femininity.
Open yourself to receive.
Be mindful how and who you spend time with.
Be your own best friend.
Take long soaks.
Buy more flowers for yourself.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Plastic is not furniture... so clear out plastic furniture...and when you can...shop flea and antique markets for wood pieces to decorate your home with instead.
This month be sure to nurture your houseplants...by taking them outside...to completely hose off to rid of dust and pests...and give them some much needed fertilizer.
Take different sized recycled glass bottles and jars...and then fill them with different shaped leafs and branches you cut from your own yards.
Mop your floors with pure lemon essential oil...just add about 12 drops to a bucket of warm water...and then mop like you usually do. This wonder essential oil cuts grime and dirt...and your home will smell wonderful.
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
There are so many culinary uses for herbs...and mint is so easy to grow... do not be afraid of growing this versatile herb for yourself.
MINT SAUCE
a small bunch of mint
2 teaspoons sugar
1 tablespoon boiling water
1-2 tablespoons vinegar
Place the mint and sugar on a cutting board and chop finely.Put in a saucepan and add the boiling water.Stir until the sugar has dissolved.Stir in vinegar to taste.
Make at least 1 hour before serving.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Nurture yourself by slowing down... understanding you do not have to be perfect...or please everyone...or do it all.
Take long walks...by yourself...and just take in the beauty of nature.
Next time you see an elderly person with shopping bags... offer to put their bags in their car for them.
Unplug from your electronics for a day... and read...garden...or make a handcrafted item instead.
Sunday, April 20, 2014
APRIL 20th 2014
TRADITIONS OF EARTH DAY musings...
This Earth Day gather your family together and have an Earth Day circle... talking and sharing about the need of caring for our beautiful planet. Because the truth is...if you take care of the Earth and her resources...you are also taking care of yourself...and future generations.
After you and your family share your thoughts on taking care of the planet and your concerns about pollution etc. ask each family member to make a promise to themselves...and to the Earth...about one thing they can do each day to care for the environment...and have them write that down on a piece of paper you have provided.
Make each one... responsible for their written promise and hold them accountable... including yourself.
After you have your Earth circle... take the family for a walk around your neighborhood... and pick up any trash you might find... and take any items that could be recycled... and place in your recycling bins.
Earth Day is a perfect day to look into using natural organic products to clean and disinfect your home. Do your research... on essential oils and herbs... to clean with and for use of pest control inside and outside of your home...including pet areas. You will be amazed how easy...affordable and simple it is to make your own cleaning products... once you have the basic ingredients and supplies.
Natural...organic fertilizers are are easily available now...so please start using them on your lawns and flower beds instead of harmful...toxic chemicals...that are polluting our water systems and the land.
And of course it goes without saying to monitor how much gas you consume by constantly running errands and driving unnecessarily. Do all your errands in one area...in one driving time...and resist the urge to drive without it having to be a necessary trip in your car.
Make or purchase handcrafted gifts for your family and friends... instead of buying all those cute...cheap products made in China...that end up in landfills.
Make a enlightened decision to STOP using paper plates ...plastic cups and plastic silverware. It is just wrong to use these...use your own china or at least use recycled... green picnic ware please.
Only buy local...fresh and organic food...in season. Think before you buy those peaches grown and shipped from Chile etc.
If you want to redecorate your home...buy antique...flea or vintage stores...use Earth friendly paint...and put houseplants throughout your home...to balance out toxins and have better air quality in your home.
Respect yourself...others...and all living things...and practice mindful living.
Love and happy Earth Day,
Victoria
Monday, April 14, 2014
APRIL 14th
THE TRADITIONS of HONEY musings...
Honey is thought to be one of the oldest foods found on the planet... and will not ever spoil... which to me means it is a near perfect natural food... besides being ever so good to eat... as well as good for you too.
Besides being a great food source... it is also great for other uses around the house...including using for minor medicinal uses...and personal care.
Be sure to find and use local honey...to be sure to get pure honey...as some honey that is sold...is filtered ... which means all those good nutrients are gone...and fruit or corn fructose syrup might be added. So be sure to read the label.... before buying anything that is not pure honey.
Give bees a good home in your yards...and help bee colonies bounce back... from the recent decline of the last few years... by planting bee attracting plants in your yards. Lavender... thyme...mint...borage...bee balm... honeysuckle...and flowering bushes...are all good choices to attract these sweet creatures.
HONEY MASK
Oh my... who knew the wonders of using honey as a face mask... here is how you do it. Just pour about 2 tablespoons honey into a small glass bowl...and then gently dab the honey all over your face. Allow the honey to stay on your face about 15 minutes...and then using a clean...wet washcloth...that you have run warm water over...gently wipe off the honey. Rinse off with warm water...followed by a cold rinse.
That's it! Your skin will be so soft... and the honey will also pull out toxins from your skin.
BLEMISH POWER
If you have a pimple... just tab a bit of honey on it... and the honey will pull out the pimple.Now that is sweet!
HONEY HAIR SHINER
For a beautiful... shine to your hair... just combine 1 teaspoon honey to 4 cups warm water... and then pour over your hair... and DO NOT RINSE OUT.
HONEY BATH
For a soothing and healing bath... try adding 1 tablespoon honey... combined with 10 drops lavender essential oil...into your bath water...and then soak in calming bliss for at least 30 minutes.
Bee happy
Victoria
HONEY BURN BALM
Because honey has anti-inflammatory properties... pure honey can help heal minor burns. If you or someone you care about gets a burn...just place a cold compress on the area...run cold water over the burn...gently dry off...apply a coat of honey.. then cover with gauze. Apply fresh honey daily...until healed.
THE TRADITIONS of HONEY musings...
Honey is thought to be one of the oldest foods found on the planet... and will not ever spoil... which to me means it is a near perfect natural food... besides being ever so good to eat... as well as good for you too.
Besides being a great food source... it is also great for other uses around the house...including using for minor medicinal uses...and personal care.
Be sure to find and use local honey...to be sure to get pure honey...as some honey that is sold...is filtered ... which means all those good nutrients are gone...and fruit or corn fructose syrup might be added. So be sure to read the label.... before buying anything that is not pure honey.
Give bees a good home in your yards...and help bee colonies bounce back... from the recent decline of the last few years... by planting bee attracting plants in your yards. Lavender... thyme...mint...borage...bee balm... honeysuckle...and flowering bushes...are all good choices to attract these sweet creatures.
HONEY MASK
Oh my... who knew the wonders of using honey as a face mask... here is how you do it. Just pour about 2 tablespoons honey into a small glass bowl...and then gently dab the honey all over your face. Allow the honey to stay on your face about 15 minutes...and then using a clean...wet washcloth...that you have run warm water over...gently wipe off the honey. Rinse off with warm water...followed by a cold rinse.
That's it! Your skin will be so soft... and the honey will also pull out toxins from your skin.
BLEMISH POWER
If you have a pimple... just tab a bit of honey on it... and the honey will pull out the pimple.Now that is sweet!
HONEY HAIR SHINER
For a beautiful... shine to your hair... just combine 1 teaspoon honey to 4 cups warm water... and then pour over your hair... and DO NOT RINSE OUT.
HONEY BATH
For a soothing and healing bath... try adding 1 tablespoon honey... combined with 10 drops lavender essential oil...into your bath water...and then soak in calming bliss for at least 30 minutes.
Bee happy
Victoria
HONEY BURN BALM
Because honey has anti-inflammatory properties... pure honey can help heal minor burns. If you or someone you care about gets a burn...just place a cold compress on the area...run cold water over the burn...gently dry off...apply a coat of honey.. then cover with gauze. Apply fresh honey daily...until healed.
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR... HOME...HEARTH... AND HEART APRIL 2014
April musings...
It is always with deepest pleasure that I welcome April... as my wonderful daughter Aurora was born this month...in the wee hours of the morning.
I gave birth to her at home... in my bathroom actually... with the help of my mid-wife...my husband and my older daughter. I didn't choose this natural way of bringing forth new life into the world... because I had to... but because I wanted to... and because my soul asked me to do this. I know this might sound odd to you... but a soul does speak to a person... if you silent yourself to listen.
The month of April is a month of rebirth... and awakening to something bigger than yourself...that you have to still yourself to "listen" to.. for your guidance... direction...knowledge and wisdom... that only your soul...your heart...and the voice of The Higher Power... gently whispers to you.
That are your answers... for what you are seeking.
It seems to me... the more I seek... a meaningful life...a life of authenticity... that resonates with my inner core... the more I have come to understand that judging myself and others... is so wrong... if there is such a thing. Everyone seems to point fingers...or poke at... anything or anyone that doesn't fit into their way of doing things... or what they WANT.
I must admit... to be honest here... I do this too... but I have come to realize... it is because I am insecure in that moment... or fearful... instead of being connected to my heart.
As I move into my sixth decade here on this beautiful earth... I crave more and more... a peaceful life... harmony and a sense of meaning in my daily life. I want to strive to be "me" in the highest possible way... for myself... and to that whisper... that voice... that to me is the Creator of all things.
I am reminded each moment... to take that part of me... that trusted so deeply in my ability to birth my daughter without even an aspirin to dull the pain of childbirth... in my own bathroom ... in present time. To focus my energy on deeply trusting and having a faith that I am guided each living... breathing second... by a force... nudging me...forward... to what is right for me...and what is best for me.
I also understand... that not everyone will accept my choices...or support them...and although it would be great if they did... I do not expect it... or need approval from anyone...only my own.
Truth is...my inner voice... never fails me.
May this lovely month of April... be the perfect days and beautiful evenings... that you begin your journey of becoming still... of silent spaces to listen to your own voice... and reclaiming self- trust and growing your faith ... in something bigger than yourself...in whatever understanding that means to you.
You are stronger than you believe you are... more powerful...and so much more deserving... and you will find that knowledge when you still your mind and stand in silence.... and "listen" to the truth of your soul. Do not allow other people who judge you... or question what is right for you...keep you from your inner knowing... or your own answers for what you need or want to do. It is your life... honor that... and stand tall.
Work with the supportive energy and teachings of this month... to reclaim parts of you lost...hidden or just plain denied by you... and go within to seek your own truth...and rebirth your life.
Be the best you... on your own terms...guided by your own inner light... and re-create your life...from the "inside" out. Not because you have to... but because you want to.
Just listen.
Blessings to you,
Victoria
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN APRIL
April 15th...Passover begins... April 18th...Good Friday...April 20th...Easter
April 15th there will be a Lunar eclipse...on April 29th there will be a Solar eclipse
FACTS ABOUT APRIL
The flower of April is the daisy... and the sweetpea
Gems for this month are the ruby...and garnet
The Romans called this month Aprilis...a time of unfolding leaves and flowers
In Victorian times the 1st Sunday in April was Daffodil Sunday... a day set aside to give sick patients handpicked daffodils at local hospitals.
APRIL HANDCRAFTED PROJECT
There is something so nurturing about creating your own bath salts or oils...to use for your personal use or make as a gift to someone you care about. Below is a simple wonderfully scented Bath Salt with essential oils for you to enjoy.
APRIL BATH OIL
1 cup epsom salt
8 drops pure honeysuckle oil
8 drops pure rose oil
4 drops patchouli oil
Blend all ingredients in a glass bowl...then either use right away in a hot bath...or place in a glass container with a lid for future use.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Use pure Lemon essential oil to clean off your counter tops in your kitchen and bathrooms...leaving these areas squeaky clean... and your whole house smelling like the lovely scent of citrus.
Clean all the windows in your home... using a natural and organic window cleaner...and dry off with recycled newspaper.
Be sure to clean and sweep your front and back porches... for an inviting and dirt free welcome to your home.
Clean your washing machine this month...by running it with hot water...with 1 quart white vinegar...on an EMPTY cycle (no clothes or other items).
Make your own LAVENDER drier sheets...by purchasing muslin cotton bags...and filling them with dried Lavender... double tie the string to close the bag...and then throw these into the drier while drying clothes and towels. Your laundry... will smell like a lavender field!
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
Make your own herbal infused beverages this month...using lovely fresh organic herbs from your garden or local organic store...a real treat that you will love making and drinking too!
ROSEMARY LEMONADE
Wash off a handful (about 1 cup) of fresh rosemary leaves and stems.Place in a medium-size pan. Add water to cover and bring to a boil.Turn off heat....cover pan...and let mixture cool completely. Discard rosemary and strain liquid through a coffee filter...or even a paper towel. Make your favorite Lemonade recipe...adding the steeped rosemary water... a bit at a time.Serve with fresh lemon slices and small sprigs of fresh rosemary. Any leftover rosemary water can be stored in fridge for a few days. This rosemary water is strong so add to taste only.
ROSEMARY SPRINKLED FRUIT
The next time you want a real treat...or an easy dessert...just place fresh organic fruit into a bowl...that you have already cut or sliced and sprinkle just a bit of finely chopped organic rosemary on top... and serve. So very good...great as a healthy snack or as a company dessert too.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Begin each day... making a choice to be HAPPY.
Make a promise to yourself to stop JUDGING yourself and others.
Do deep breathing exercises each morning or evening... exhaling deeply negative thoughts or feelings...and inhale deeply... life affirming feelings and positive thoughts.
Plant a container garden...on your back porch...of herbs...tomatoes and lovely lettuce.
Bird watch.
Sit outside and feel the Sun.
Meditate or pray outside.
It is always with deepest pleasure that I welcome April... as my wonderful daughter Aurora was born this month...in the wee hours of the morning.
I gave birth to her at home... in my bathroom actually... with the help of my mid-wife...my husband and my older daughter. I didn't choose this natural way of bringing forth new life into the world... because I had to... but because I wanted to... and because my soul asked me to do this. I know this might sound odd to you... but a soul does speak to a person... if you silent yourself to listen.
The month of April is a month of rebirth... and awakening to something bigger than yourself...that you have to still yourself to "listen" to.. for your guidance... direction...knowledge and wisdom... that only your soul...your heart...and the voice of The Higher Power... gently whispers to you.
That are your answers... for what you are seeking.
It seems to me... the more I seek... a meaningful life...a life of authenticity... that resonates with my inner core... the more I have come to understand that judging myself and others... is so wrong... if there is such a thing. Everyone seems to point fingers...or poke at... anything or anyone that doesn't fit into their way of doing things... or what they WANT.
I must admit... to be honest here... I do this too... but I have come to realize... it is because I am insecure in that moment... or fearful... instead of being connected to my heart.
As I move into my sixth decade here on this beautiful earth... I crave more and more... a peaceful life... harmony and a sense of meaning in my daily life. I want to strive to be "me" in the highest possible way... for myself... and to that whisper... that voice... that to me is the Creator of all things.
I am reminded each moment... to take that part of me... that trusted so deeply in my ability to birth my daughter without even an aspirin to dull the pain of childbirth... in my own bathroom ... in present time. To focus my energy on deeply trusting and having a faith that I am guided each living... breathing second... by a force... nudging me...forward... to what is right for me...and what is best for me.
I also understand... that not everyone will accept my choices...or support them...and although it would be great if they did... I do not expect it... or need approval from anyone...only my own.
Truth is...my inner voice... never fails me.
May this lovely month of April... be the perfect days and beautiful evenings... that you begin your journey of becoming still... of silent spaces to listen to your own voice... and reclaiming self- trust and growing your faith ... in something bigger than yourself...in whatever understanding that means to you.
You are stronger than you believe you are... more powerful...and so much more deserving... and you will find that knowledge when you still your mind and stand in silence.... and "listen" to the truth of your soul. Do not allow other people who judge you... or question what is right for you...keep you from your inner knowing... or your own answers for what you need or want to do. It is your life... honor that... and stand tall.
Work with the supportive energy and teachings of this month... to reclaim parts of you lost...hidden or just plain denied by you... and go within to seek your own truth...and rebirth your life.
Be the best you... on your own terms...guided by your own inner light... and re-create your life...from the "inside" out. Not because you have to... but because you want to.
Just listen.
Blessings to you,
Victoria
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN APRIL
April 15th...Passover begins... April 18th...Good Friday...April 20th...Easter
April 15th there will be a Lunar eclipse...on April 29th there will be a Solar eclipse
FACTS ABOUT APRIL
The flower of April is the daisy... and the sweetpea
Gems for this month are the ruby...and garnet
The Romans called this month Aprilis...a time of unfolding leaves and flowers
In Victorian times the 1st Sunday in April was Daffodil Sunday... a day set aside to give sick patients handpicked daffodils at local hospitals.
APRIL HANDCRAFTED PROJECT
There is something so nurturing about creating your own bath salts or oils...to use for your personal use or make as a gift to someone you care about. Below is a simple wonderfully scented Bath Salt with essential oils for you to enjoy.
APRIL BATH OIL
1 cup epsom salt
8 drops pure honeysuckle oil
8 drops pure rose oil
4 drops patchouli oil
Blend all ingredients in a glass bowl...then either use right away in a hot bath...or place in a glass container with a lid for future use.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Use pure Lemon essential oil to clean off your counter tops in your kitchen and bathrooms...leaving these areas squeaky clean... and your whole house smelling like the lovely scent of citrus.
Clean all the windows in your home... using a natural and organic window cleaner...and dry off with recycled newspaper.
Be sure to clean and sweep your front and back porches... for an inviting and dirt free welcome to your home.
Clean your washing machine this month...by running it with hot water...with 1 quart white vinegar...on an EMPTY cycle (no clothes or other items).
Make your own LAVENDER drier sheets...by purchasing muslin cotton bags...and filling them with dried Lavender... double tie the string to close the bag...and then throw these into the drier while drying clothes and towels. Your laundry... will smell like a lavender field!
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
Make your own herbal infused beverages this month...using lovely fresh organic herbs from your garden or local organic store...a real treat that you will love making and drinking too!
ROSEMARY LEMONADE
Wash off a handful (about 1 cup) of fresh rosemary leaves and stems.Place in a medium-size pan. Add water to cover and bring to a boil.Turn off heat....cover pan...and let mixture cool completely. Discard rosemary and strain liquid through a coffee filter...or even a paper towel. Make your favorite Lemonade recipe...adding the steeped rosemary water... a bit at a time.Serve with fresh lemon slices and small sprigs of fresh rosemary. Any leftover rosemary water can be stored in fridge for a few days. This rosemary water is strong so add to taste only.
ROSEMARY SPRINKLED FRUIT
The next time you want a real treat...or an easy dessert...just place fresh organic fruit into a bowl...that you have already cut or sliced and sprinkle just a bit of finely chopped organic rosemary on top... and serve. So very good...great as a healthy snack or as a company dessert too.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Begin each day... making a choice to be HAPPY.
Make a promise to yourself to stop JUDGING yourself and others.
Do deep breathing exercises each morning or evening... exhaling deeply negative thoughts or feelings...and inhale deeply... life affirming feelings and positive thoughts.
Plant a container garden...on your back porch...of herbs...tomatoes and lovely lettuce.
Bird watch.
Sit outside and feel the Sun.
Meditate or pray outside.
Saturday, March 15, 2014
MARCH 15th....
I am so pleased to announce this lovely Saturday... that my favorite and most requested traditions are now on my web site in the form of easy to follow e-courses for you to create at home.
Just click on my web site ... on my side bar on the right... Feminine Living... then click on the button TRADITIONS...and you can view as well as order my new e-courses.
Blessings always and thank you for your support,
Victoria..
I am so pleased to announce this lovely Saturday... that my favorite and most requested traditions are now on my web site in the form of easy to follow e-courses for you to create at home.
Just click on my web site ... on my side bar on the right... Feminine Living... then click on the button TRADITIONS...and you can view as well as order my new e-courses.
Blessings always and thank you for your support,
Victoria..
Monday, March 3, 2014
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR ...HOME...HEARTH...AND HEART MARCH 2014
MARCH musings...
March is just one of those months that really light up my heart... because with each breath I take... I breathe in the sweet air of new life... all around me... filling me up with the hope and promise of rebirth and new beginnings.
I feel refreshed and energized this month of March... ready to create new beginnings... and embrace my life...my passions... and my inner spirit with more gusto than I have ever felt in my life. I gave myself lots of reflecting and pondering my life time... this winter cycle... and I am clearer and more focused on my vision for myself and and what I want... that my soul calls out to me to be... do and create.
The March air finds me at peace... with myself... finally...and all my "would of...could of...should of " baggage was cleared out within me this winter... after deep inner digging... tears...sadness... and anger was felt by me... and released.... until... one moment I felt the loving cloud of compassion and self acceptance... gently clothe me... knowing for certain ... a road of completion on many levels... was accomplished by me...for me... in the rainy... cold days... of this winter cycle.
This wonderful and enlightening frame of mind and heart... lead me to take the steps to complete many of my home projects... that I had left undone... such a symbol for issues and problems that I had left undone within me. My new and healthy way of seeing myself... motivated me to finish up a paint project and clear out my closets...and rearrange furniture to my liking. As I purged and cleansed within myself... I purged and cleaned my own body... mind... and spirit... and began to see the light at the end of the tunnel... so to speak.
All of this purging and clearing out in the physical and emotional world... has opened me to new ventures.... not only with Feminine Living Traditions... but also a new family business... that much to my joy... I am finding rather fun...and have taken a liking to. I know that if I had not done my emotional purging this winter cycle... I would not have opened up... to the new and unknown.
I am not saying that I am perfect or that my life is... but I do believe and know that when you are holding on to negative beliefs or patterns... they can keep you in chains...and once YOU really decide that you have had enough of whatever holds you back in life...and take the steps to create change... a feeling of liberation and self confidence fills up your heart. You truly get... "I deserve better" And you truly get...YOU are responsible for making better choices and taking the steps to create a better you. No one else will or can do it for you.
So this month of March... my wish for you is that you decide to change... for you...and then take the necessary steps and action that you will need to do... in order to open yourself... so you can accomplish your new healthy beginnings...and above all else... have hope...have faith... that at the end of the tunnel... you will find light...and that light will be you!
Blessings,
Victoria
AFFIRMATION FOR MARCH
"I am willing to do the work... to open myself to new beginnings".
MARCH CEREMONY
Begin each morning lighting a candle... and asking for guidance how you can be a better person and woman... and give thanks for another day.
MARCH HANDCRAFTING
There is something so wonderful about making your own essential oils...for your personal use...as well as giving to others as gifts. Once you have all your supplies... oils are very inexpensive to make...and so good for your self care.
SPRING OIL
1 drop cedar oil
6 drops lavender oil
3 drops rosemary oil
3 drops cypress oil
4 drops vanilla oil
1 drop patchouli oil
In a base of 2 tablespoons Jojoba oil...add drops of all the oils... shake bottle well... and allow to blend for a few days. You can wear this as a scent or place small amount in your bath to soak. You can double or triple this recipe for future use. Just be sure to buy pure essential oils...and you can purchase small bottles with tops for your oils at a local health food store or on-line at www.mountainroseherbs.com
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS FOR THE MONTH OF MARCH
March 4th ....Mardi Gras...March 5th...Ash Wednesday...March 17th...St.Patrick's Day...March 20th...Easter...March 20th...Spring Equinox
FULL MOON...March 16th
NEW MOON...March 30th
FACTS ABOUT THE MONTH OF MARCH
Flowers of March...The jonquil...daffodil...and violet
Gemstones of March...The aquamarine...bloodstone
The natural teachings and lessons of this month are opening yourself to new beginnings... just as you see new life... blooming in nature.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
March is the month to begin your spring cleaning... just take one room at a time... and mindfully... dust...clean windows...inside and out... clear out clutter and give to charity... vacuum... thoroughly.
Put fresh flowers in each room in your home... I purchase one large flower arrangement at the store...and then divide the flowers...so I can place flowers in at least 3-4 rooms in my home... from one large arrangement.
And don't forget... all those lovely branches and big leaves found in your own back or front yards... cut them... and bring into your home...placed in a pretty vase...they look wonderful set out on tables and kitchen counters.
... FOR YOUR HEARTH
In honor of St. Patrick's Day and my love of the Irish... and their really good food that I have had the pleasure of eating while in Ireland... I have included below a few Irish recipes I thought you would enjoy. Both recipes are from the cookbook....The Food and Cooking Of Ireland by Biddy White Lennon and Georgina Campbell.
APPLE SNOW
serves 6
1 1/2 pounds cooking apples
a small lemon...that you thinly peel for the lemon rind
1/2 cup caster sugar ( superfine)
3 egg whites
Peel and core the apples.Then slice the apples into small pieces.Place apples into a medium pan with 3 tablespoons water and the lemon rind.Cover and simmer for about 15 minutes or until the apples become fluffy.Remove from heat...and take out the lemon rind. Sweeten with the sugar. Beat the apples well with a wooden spoon to make a puree or run through a sieve if you want a smoother texture. Leave to cool.
When the apple puree is cold...whisk the egg whites until stiff. Fold the egg whites...into the apple mixture... gently...with a spoon. Mix until the mixture is light...and has thickened. Place in pretty bowls and enjoy!!!!
CHAMP
serves 2-3
This is a traditional dish of Northern Ireland...and a real comfort food.
1 1/2 pounds potatoes
1 bunch spring onions (scallions) chopped
1 1/4 cups whole milk
salt and pepper
Irish butter
Peel and boil potatoes in salted water...until tender.Drain and return to the pan. Boil the spring onions for 5 minutes in the milk.Cover the potatoes with a clean cloth and dry them at the side of the stove for a few minutes before mashing well.Beat in the boiling milk and spring onions.Working over the heat so that the champ is kept very hot..beat until the consistency is like well creamed potatoes.Add more milk if necessary.
Season well with salt and pepper. To serve...make a well in the center of each Champ serving and add a pat of butter. Yummy!
... FOR YOUR HEART
Dance as if no one's watching.Sing as if no one's listening, and live everyday as if it were your last.
- Irish proverb
A light heart lives long.
- Irish proverb
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