JUNE RECIPES...
NURTURE... yourself after a long morning or afternoon in your garden... by a shower or long soak in your tub...candles lit...a soft towel...and a soothing natural muscle and joint pain oil...that you have made yourself.
THYME & CEDARWOOD JOINT
& BACKACHE RUB
Rich in thymol...menthone and pinene...this thyme massage oil rub relieves backache and joint pain. The cedarwood oil enhances the healing effects of thyme and smells wonderful...with a musky... woody scent.
2 ounces jojoba oil
12 drops of pure thyme essential oil
12 drops of pure cedarwood oil
a recycled bottle or jar...clean and dry
small glass bowl to mix.
Mix all ingredients together in the small glass bowl...and then massage into painful areas with a gentle touch. Store any left over in the clean...dry bottle or jar. Store in a cool dry place for future use.
This also makes a great gift to give...double or triple the recipe ...place in a recycled glass bottle or jar...tie a tag with the ingredients and directions for use...written on it...and tie with a pretty ribbon.
FOOD...that is healthy and easy to make...makes for a simple summer dinner...enjoy!
SNAPPER WITH ALMONDS
Serves 4
1/2 cup toasted sliced almonds
2 tablespoons olive oil
2 tablespoons butter
4 snapper fillets or cod the skin on and about 4 oz. each
salt and freshly ground pepper
juice of 1 fresh lemon
1/2 cup chopped fresh parsley
In a nonstick fry pan...toast the almonds until lightly browned. Set aside. Warm the olive oil and butter in the frying pan.Add the snapper skin-side up. Season with salt and pepper. Cook 3 to 4 minutes on each side. Transfer the fish to a warm serving plate and cover loosely with foil.
Add the lemon to the pan and whisk to blend with the pan juices.Pour over the fish and sprinkle with parsley...then the toasted almonds. Serve and savor this wonderful dish.
**** Cooking tip....When you add olive oil to butter...while cooking...the butter will not burn
Monday, June 9, 2014
Sunday, June 1, 2014
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR... HOME...HEARTH...AND HEART JUNE 2014
JUNE musings...
My daughter Andrea was born this month...many June moons ago...but the joy I felt when I first saw and held her...seems like just a few moments ago...to me.
Her birth brought such positive change for me...and such a gift and blessing...and I cherish that season of my life as a woman and as her mom.
Memories like that stay with a woman and a new mom ...no matter how many years ago that you birthed your child...or how old the child is. Sometimes at the strangest times...my thoughts turn fondly when my daughters were born...or I capture a glimpse of them when they were babies or very small children. Those are the very best memories for me...always...and my daughters are my most priceless and worthy accomplishments of my life.
It is so true the more years you walk the earth journey...the more you ponder the time you have lived...and experienced...and also begin to seriously value your time and how you spend it.On days when I know my daughter Andrea will call me on Skype...and I can talk and see her beautiful face and my little grandson...who both live many... many miles away... that event...being with them...via Skype becomes and is the most important priority for me...nothing else I have planned or on my do to list that day...matters.
My garden now is my time piece... the light or shadows of the ever present Sun...my clock. Being in nature...my feet touching the Earth...breathing in the greens...the colors of my flowers...the big oak tree right smack in the middle of the backyard... is my gate keeper...of time.
My garden shows me how and when to be hopeful of new beginnings in the gentle Spring cycle...and when my garden grows quickly and unstoppable...it is time for me too to get moving on projects and grow my soul more. The slow but steady release of leaves...the brown edges of my rose bushes...are tell tale signs of the Fall season... approaching...so I too reflect on what I need to "let go" of...which as I age...seems to be more with each passing year. The Winter cycle is my favorite season ...all living things in nature have seemed to stop...to retreat and nest within. I retreat as well...into my peaceful home...to create quiet space and solitude for myself... so I can ponder the year...of lessons learned...healing I still need to begin...and to renew my spirit.
My journey as a woman...has gifted me with seasons...each season or cycle... bringing me the joys and sorrows that life brings to any woman. With each season I have had lessons...and turns in the road...that I did not ask for...or even want...but somehow made me a better person...and woman.
No time has been wasted...for each season...each trial...and setback...has helped me grow my soul...and opened my heart more. To the wonder and joy of life...and my place in it.
I am in a good season...right now...a blessed time...in my life...and I feel such gratitude for all the many blessings I have.
I am still growing and learning...and the lesson of patience is still an ongoing struggle for me.But when I feel frustrated...because " it hasn't happened yet"... I go outside and gaze at my garden...in particular my tomato plants...full of tiny green tomatoes...yearning to grow into full maturity...which they will someday. When I am reminded of this simple truth... in my garden...I know in my heart...that being patient...having faith...and staying in integrity with myself...the best of times...are still to come.
May you be blessed this month,
Victoria
EARTH PRAYERS
Within the circles of our lives
we dance the circles of the years,
the circles of the seasons
within the circles of the years,
the cycles of the moon
within the circles of the seasons,
the circles of our reasons
within the cycles of the moon.
Again,again we come and go,
changed,changing. Hands.
join, unjoin in love and fear,
grief and joy.The circles turn,
each giving into each, into all.
Only music keeps us here,
each by all the others held.
In the hold of hands and eyes
we turn in pairs, that joining
joining each to all again.
And then we turn aside, alone,
out of the sunlight gone
into the darker circles of return.
by Wendell Berry
WEDDINGS IN JUNE
Did you know...some classical scholars believe that the month of June is actually named after Juno...the Roman goddess of marriage.
The Greek civilization created the tradition of placing wedding rings on the third finger of the left hand...because the ancient Greeks believed a vein in this finger ran directly to the heart.
HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWER
CONSULTATIONS WITH VICTORIA
If you are wanting to be a hostess for a family member or a close friend who is getting married...I offer you consultations... on how to plan and create beautiful...old-fashioned and unique HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWERS.
Just click on my link Feminine Living...on the right hand side of this blog and then click on the button TRADITIONS .Scroll down to Consultations...where you can place your order. I will contact you via email...when to set up your first telephone or Skype consultation with me. From start to finish...I will assist you in creating a memorable and heart warming experience for the bride to be... that will always be remembered and cherished. And because I am committed to good customer service...follow up support is always included in my fee.
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS FOR JUNE
June 2nd my daughters birthday...June 5th World Environment Day...June 8th...World Ocean's Day...
June 14th Flag Day...June 15th..Father's Day...June 21st...Summer Solstice
FLOWERS FOR JUNE
The Rose
GEMSTONES FOR JUNE
The pearl...moonstone...alexandrite...agate...opal
FULL MOON IN JUNE
June 13th
NATURAL BEE STING MEDICINE
Bee's naturally will not harm you...unless they feel threatened or disturbed...but sometimes a bee sting does happen...especially to those who garden...spend time in nature. Below is a natural way to treat your bee sting...but if you have an allergy to bee sting...PLEASE USE YOUR PRESCRIBED MEDICINE.
If you get stung by a bee..remove the stinger with clean tweezers. Apply a paste of baking soda and cold water. A mixture of parsley juice and honey will also help to ease the irritation...just crush the parsley leaves and stems to release the juice.
Also a cold...wet tea bag makes a good poultice for bites and stings.Tea contains tannic acid...which helps to reduce swelling.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS...
...FOR YOUR HOME
Clear out furniture and accessories from your home this June...that just add clutter...or are so worn and torn...they make the room they are in look shabby and worn. Take stock of what you want to keep...in each room... and then see where you can place a furniture item...picture...rug or accessory ...in one room and place it in another...rearranging in a different way. You will be so pleased and amazed how good... items in one room in your home...looks in another room as well. Things is such a practical and wonderful way to redecorate your whole house...recycling at its finest...and no expense for you!!!
Switch out all your light bulbs for more energy efficient lighting.
Start using your best china and special occasion items...everyday...it makes no sense to use these lovely items for company only...you and your family are worthy of using them everyday.
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
Be sure to eat seasonal fruit and buy fruit from local farmers...keeping prosperity in your community...as well as your food cost ...and you will also be helping the environment when you do not support air transportation or costly trucking from food that is transported out of your area.
I am easily swayed to get out my fork or spoon for anything made with fruit...or a recipe that calls for an ingredient of organic... culinary lavender. Below is a simply wonderful recipe that uses both...enjoy!
PEACH CRISP WITH LAVENDER
Serves 8
6 cups sliced ripe peaces
1 tablespoon lemon juice
about 1/3 cup sugar
1 tablespoon and 2 teaspoons cornstarch
1 scant teaspoon dried organic...culinary lavender
1 cup unbleached flour
1 cup packed light brown sugar
12 tablespoons unsalted butter...cut into pieces
1/8 teaspoon salt
few grinds of fresh ground nutmeg
Preheat oven to 400 degrees and butter a 2-1/2 quart baking dish. Combine the peaches...lemon juice...sugar...cornstarch...and lavender flowers in a bowl and toss well. If the peaches are tart add a little more sugar.Transfer the peach mixture to the baking dish and spread evenly.
Combine the flour...brown sugar...salt...and nutmeg in a bowl and stir to blend.Cut the butter into the crisp ingredients with a pastry blender until just blended.Spread the mixture over the fruit and bake in preheated oven for about 30 minutes...until the crisp is golden brown and the peaches are bubbling. Serve warm or at room temperature. This treat is great topped with vanilla ice cream too if you wish.
*** You can order organic culinary lavender from www.mountainroseherbs.com or your local organic food store should have it available.
WHOLE NUTMEG
You will never purchase ground nutmeg again once you purchase and cook with whole nutmeg... found in bottles at your food store. The taste is unbeatable when you grind it yourself...on those little tiny graters made just for this use...plus it is so easy to grate nutmeg.
I think it also looks so pretty to place whole nutmeg out on your kitchen counter...in a pretty recycled bottle or jar for all to see.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Run through the sprinkler with your children this month...and connect with your own inner child...as well as spending some quality and good old-fashioned fun time with your children.
Have reading night with your family or for yourself at least once every two weeks. This means no television...cell phones or video games. Everyone read their own books...or a family favorite to read out loud... being sure to give everyone a turn at being the chosen reader.
My daughter Andrea was born this month...many June moons ago...but the joy I felt when I first saw and held her...seems like just a few moments ago...to me.
Her birth brought such positive change for me...and such a gift and blessing...and I cherish that season of my life as a woman and as her mom.
Memories like that stay with a woman and a new mom ...no matter how many years ago that you birthed your child...or how old the child is. Sometimes at the strangest times...my thoughts turn fondly when my daughters were born...or I capture a glimpse of them when they were babies or very small children. Those are the very best memories for me...always...and my daughters are my most priceless and worthy accomplishments of my life.
It is so true the more years you walk the earth journey...the more you ponder the time you have lived...and experienced...and also begin to seriously value your time and how you spend it.On days when I know my daughter Andrea will call me on Skype...and I can talk and see her beautiful face and my little grandson...who both live many... many miles away... that event...being with them...via Skype becomes and is the most important priority for me...nothing else I have planned or on my do to list that day...matters.
My garden now is my time piece... the light or shadows of the ever present Sun...my clock. Being in nature...my feet touching the Earth...breathing in the greens...the colors of my flowers...the big oak tree right smack in the middle of the backyard... is my gate keeper...of time.
My garden shows me how and when to be hopeful of new beginnings in the gentle Spring cycle...and when my garden grows quickly and unstoppable...it is time for me too to get moving on projects and grow my soul more. The slow but steady release of leaves...the brown edges of my rose bushes...are tell tale signs of the Fall season... approaching...so I too reflect on what I need to "let go" of...which as I age...seems to be more with each passing year. The Winter cycle is my favorite season ...all living things in nature have seemed to stop...to retreat and nest within. I retreat as well...into my peaceful home...to create quiet space and solitude for myself... so I can ponder the year...of lessons learned...healing I still need to begin...and to renew my spirit.
My journey as a woman...has gifted me with seasons...each season or cycle... bringing me the joys and sorrows that life brings to any woman. With each season I have had lessons...and turns in the road...that I did not ask for...or even want...but somehow made me a better person...and woman.
No time has been wasted...for each season...each trial...and setback...has helped me grow my soul...and opened my heart more. To the wonder and joy of life...and my place in it.
I am in a good season...right now...a blessed time...in my life...and I feel such gratitude for all the many blessings I have.
I am still growing and learning...and the lesson of patience is still an ongoing struggle for me.But when I feel frustrated...because " it hasn't happened yet"... I go outside and gaze at my garden...in particular my tomato plants...full of tiny green tomatoes...yearning to grow into full maturity...which they will someday. When I am reminded of this simple truth... in my garden...I know in my heart...that being patient...having faith...and staying in integrity with myself...the best of times...are still to come.
May you be blessed this month,
Victoria
EARTH PRAYERS
Within the circles of our lives
we dance the circles of the years,
the circles of the seasons
within the circles of the years,
the cycles of the moon
within the circles of the seasons,
the circles of our reasons
within the cycles of the moon.
Again,again we come and go,
changed,changing. Hands.
join, unjoin in love and fear,
grief and joy.The circles turn,
each giving into each, into all.
Only music keeps us here,
each by all the others held.
In the hold of hands and eyes
we turn in pairs, that joining
joining each to all again.
And then we turn aside, alone,
out of the sunlight gone
into the darker circles of return.
by Wendell Berry
WEDDINGS IN JUNE
Did you know...some classical scholars believe that the month of June is actually named after Juno...the Roman goddess of marriage.
The Greek civilization created the tradition of placing wedding rings on the third finger of the left hand...because the ancient Greeks believed a vein in this finger ran directly to the heart.
HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWER
CONSULTATIONS WITH VICTORIA
If you are wanting to be a hostess for a family member or a close friend who is getting married...I offer you consultations... on how to plan and create beautiful...old-fashioned and unique HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWERS.
Just click on my link Feminine Living...on the right hand side of this blog and then click on the button TRADITIONS .Scroll down to Consultations...where you can place your order. I will contact you via email...when to set up your first telephone or Skype consultation with me. From start to finish...I will assist you in creating a memorable and heart warming experience for the bride to be... that will always be remembered and cherished. And because I am committed to good customer service...follow up support is always included in my fee.
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS FOR JUNE
June 2nd my daughters birthday...June 5th World Environment Day...June 8th...World Ocean's Day...
June 14th Flag Day...June 15th..Father's Day...June 21st...Summer Solstice
FLOWERS FOR JUNE
The Rose
GEMSTONES FOR JUNE
The pearl...moonstone...alexandrite...agate...opal
FULL MOON IN JUNE
June 13th
NATURAL BEE STING MEDICINE
Bee's naturally will not harm you...unless they feel threatened or disturbed...but sometimes a bee sting does happen...especially to those who garden...spend time in nature. Below is a natural way to treat your bee sting...but if you have an allergy to bee sting...PLEASE USE YOUR PRESCRIBED MEDICINE.
If you get stung by a bee..remove the stinger with clean tweezers. Apply a paste of baking soda and cold water. A mixture of parsley juice and honey will also help to ease the irritation...just crush the parsley leaves and stems to release the juice.
Also a cold...wet tea bag makes a good poultice for bites and stings.Tea contains tannic acid...which helps to reduce swelling.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS...
...FOR YOUR HOME
Clear out furniture and accessories from your home this June...that just add clutter...or are so worn and torn...they make the room they are in look shabby and worn. Take stock of what you want to keep...in each room... and then see where you can place a furniture item...picture...rug or accessory ...in one room and place it in another...rearranging in a different way. You will be so pleased and amazed how good... items in one room in your home...looks in another room as well. Things is such a practical and wonderful way to redecorate your whole house...recycling at its finest...and no expense for you!!!
Switch out all your light bulbs for more energy efficient lighting.
Start using your best china and special occasion items...everyday...it makes no sense to use these lovely items for company only...you and your family are worthy of using them everyday.
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
Be sure to eat seasonal fruit and buy fruit from local farmers...keeping prosperity in your community...as well as your food cost ...and you will also be helping the environment when you do not support air transportation or costly trucking from food that is transported out of your area.
I am easily swayed to get out my fork or spoon for anything made with fruit...or a recipe that calls for an ingredient of organic... culinary lavender. Below is a simply wonderful recipe that uses both...enjoy!
PEACH CRISP WITH LAVENDER
Serves 8
6 cups sliced ripe peaces
1 tablespoon lemon juice
about 1/3 cup sugar
1 tablespoon and 2 teaspoons cornstarch
1 scant teaspoon dried organic...culinary lavender
1 cup unbleached flour
1 cup packed light brown sugar
12 tablespoons unsalted butter...cut into pieces
1/8 teaspoon salt
few grinds of fresh ground nutmeg
Preheat oven to 400 degrees and butter a 2-1/2 quart baking dish. Combine the peaches...lemon juice...sugar...cornstarch...and lavender flowers in a bowl and toss well. If the peaches are tart add a little more sugar.Transfer the peach mixture to the baking dish and spread evenly.
Combine the flour...brown sugar...salt...and nutmeg in a bowl and stir to blend.Cut the butter into the crisp ingredients with a pastry blender until just blended.Spread the mixture over the fruit and bake in preheated oven for about 30 minutes...until the crisp is golden brown and the peaches are bubbling. Serve warm or at room temperature. This treat is great topped with vanilla ice cream too if you wish.
*** You can order organic culinary lavender from www.mountainroseherbs.com or your local organic food store should have it available.
WHOLE NUTMEG
You will never purchase ground nutmeg again once you purchase and cook with whole nutmeg... found in bottles at your food store. The taste is unbeatable when you grind it yourself...on those little tiny graters made just for this use...plus it is so easy to grate nutmeg.
I think it also looks so pretty to place whole nutmeg out on your kitchen counter...in a pretty recycled bottle or jar for all to see.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Run through the sprinkler with your children this month...and connect with your own inner child...as well as spending some quality and good old-fashioned fun time with your children.
Have reading night with your family or for yourself at least once every two weeks. This means no television...cell phones or video games. Everyone read their own books...or a family favorite to read out loud... being sure to give everyone a turn at being the chosen reader.
Friday, May 23, 2014
MAY ANNOUNCEMENT....NEW SERVICES FOR FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR... HOME...HEARTH...AND HEART
I am so pleased to announce to you... a few of my new services...that I know in my heart...will add more meaning...to the way you celebrate milestone events in your life...and give you... a deeper connection to your own feminine spirit.
I am aware that women from every walk of life...are seeking ways to return to a more simple...heart based way of living...including stepping away from mass produced...high cost...and cookie cutter celebrations. Women are longing... instead... to fill their spirits and hearts...with authentic...creative...and spirit filled celebrations... that include honoring milestone changes and transitions that any woman...experiences in her lifetime.
For many years I facilitated locally... personal Blessings... which is an old-fashioned... unique celebration that honors a milestone event for you...that signifies an important change in your life as a woman. I experienced first hand how much these Blessings touched women's lives in such a positive way...and made their milestone or personal change a more memorable occasion for them...as well as all the women who were invited...to participate in the Blessing. Perhaps it is the handcrafted... homey feel of a Blessing...the use of your own creativity...or the nostalgic touch... reminiscent of years gone past...or the sharing with other women that personal Blessings resonate...that make these special Blessings...such a life affirming venue that touches a woman's spirit...and always open hearts.
And in a world that is constantly changing...and often at speeds that can leave you feeling disconnected...and pressured...simple traditions that you can practice and share with family and friends...is more important than ever before.
Because I value...and know first hand... how fulfilling...bonding... and heart- opening these traditions are... I have created for you...simple...easy to follow feminine traditions...in the form of personal Blessings... that come to you...in your inbox as an e-course. All you have to do... is read the personal Blessing...you order...follow the simple instructions...and then use your own creativity to add those special touches to make it yours...or to give as a gift... or be the hostess to a loved one or friend.
So take a step back into time..to honor and celebrate... all those special milestone changes as a woman...that are so deserving of lasting memories...with personal Blessings... by Feminine Living Traditions For your Home...Hearth And Heart.
To order... as an e-course...you are offered
Young Lady Coming Of Age
Pregnancy Blessing
Baby Blessing
Home Blessing
www.feminineliving.com or click on Feminine Living on my blog links
click on button TRADITIONS
to view and purchase
CONSULTATIONS WITH VICTORIA
I now also offer you CONSULTATIONS with the most requested celebrations... that I have facilitated for many years.
My consultations ... via telephone... or upon request via Skype...will give you expert advice on how you can create and plan...a lovely and naturally elegant... HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWER...from start to finish...as well as consult you on how you can plan a MILESTONE BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION of your 30th...40th...50th...and beyond decade birthday...that focuses on paying tribute to your uniqueness and celebrating your life...instead of the usual store bought...cake and ice cream venue.
My consultations can be adapted to hold for a loved one or friend also...so whether you are wanting the Consultation for yourself or another... I will guide and assist you from start to finish...including follow up support...to create the most fulfilling and heart warming experience...for you...that I know will create lasting memories of a lifetime.
To order your Consultation With Victoria
www.feminineliving.com or click on Feminine Living on my blog links
click on button TRADITIONS
Celebrate this month with traditions,
Victoria
I am aware that women from every walk of life...are seeking ways to return to a more simple...heart based way of living...including stepping away from mass produced...high cost...and cookie cutter celebrations. Women are longing... instead... to fill their spirits and hearts...with authentic...creative...and spirit filled celebrations... that include honoring milestone changes and transitions that any woman...experiences in her lifetime.
For many years I facilitated locally... personal Blessings... which is an old-fashioned... unique celebration that honors a milestone event for you...that signifies an important change in your life as a woman. I experienced first hand how much these Blessings touched women's lives in such a positive way...and made their milestone or personal change a more memorable occasion for them...as well as all the women who were invited...to participate in the Blessing. Perhaps it is the handcrafted... homey feel of a Blessing...the use of your own creativity...or the nostalgic touch... reminiscent of years gone past...or the sharing with other women that personal Blessings resonate...that make these special Blessings...such a life affirming venue that touches a woman's spirit...and always open hearts.
And in a world that is constantly changing...and often at speeds that can leave you feeling disconnected...and pressured...simple traditions that you can practice and share with family and friends...is more important than ever before.
Because I value...and know first hand... how fulfilling...bonding... and heart- opening these traditions are... I have created for you...simple...easy to follow feminine traditions...in the form of personal Blessings... that come to you...in your inbox as an e-course. All you have to do... is read the personal Blessing...you order...follow the simple instructions...and then use your own creativity to add those special touches to make it yours...or to give as a gift... or be the hostess to a loved one or friend.
So take a step back into time..to honor and celebrate... all those special milestone changes as a woman...that are so deserving of lasting memories...with personal Blessings... by Feminine Living Traditions For your Home...Hearth And Heart.
To order... as an e-course...you are offered
Young Lady Coming Of Age
Pregnancy Blessing
Baby Blessing
Home Blessing
www.feminineliving.com or click on Feminine Living on my blog links
click on button TRADITIONS
to view and purchase
CONSULTATIONS WITH VICTORIA
I now also offer you CONSULTATIONS with the most requested celebrations... that I have facilitated for many years.
My consultations ... via telephone... or upon request via Skype...will give you expert advice on how you can create and plan...a lovely and naturally elegant... HERBAL BRIDAL SHOWER...from start to finish...as well as consult you on how you can plan a MILESTONE BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION of your 30th...40th...50th...and beyond decade birthday...that focuses on paying tribute to your uniqueness and celebrating your life...instead of the usual store bought...cake and ice cream venue.
My consultations can be adapted to hold for a loved one or friend also...so whether you are wanting the Consultation for yourself or another... I will guide and assist you from start to finish...including follow up support...to create the most fulfilling and heart warming experience...for you...that I know will create lasting memories of a lifetime.
To order your Consultation With Victoria
www.feminineliving.com or click on Feminine Living on my blog links
click on button TRADITIONS
Celebrate this month with traditions,
Victoria
Saturday, May 3, 2014
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR... HOME...HEARTH... AND HEART MAY 2014
MAY musings...
As I gaze out my kitchen window...into my backyard...I see life and beauty in every nook and corner. The big oak tree my husband planted when we bought this house 15 years ago... is huge now... so strong and beautiful it is... always faithful standing guard in our backyard. A few years ago... a honeysuckle vine found it's way into the branches... and taken root... amongst the leaves... and the honeysuckles fragrance perfumes the air... smelling like an exotic island paradise with each breath I take... when I venture into my yard.
My white roses dance daintily in the breeze... making me smile each time I gaze at them. I planted them myself... nurturing them each long... hot summer here in Texas... including sending them loving energy...and talking to them too... and they have survived... beautifully.
Squirrels dance and romp... under the oak tree...and climb the back fence... faster than I can blink my eyes...and give me constant chuckles... for they are natural clowns. I leave them food each day... unsalted sunflower seeds and nuts... and they stuff their cheeks with them...looking like they could pop...they are so full of the food I leave them.
My herbs... I grow... bring me the greatest pleasure. To me they are priceless Earth jewels...ready to pluck and pick for medicine... culinary use...and healing baths. Or to place in small glass vases...to decorate my home with.
I cannot help but feel a little sad for people who do not believe in a Higher Power... or a God... when I look out at my garden... or pulling weeds...or just sitting outside listening to the quiet sound nature makes. Something amazing...and all powerful and all loving created this immense beauty and wonder. It certainly wasn't humans... it was and has to be something MORE...something beautifully... incredibly... WONDERFUL.
But that's just my belief... in my heart...that I hold close. I do not judge anyone for what they think or feel... it is not my job...or my responsibility... to make others believe in a Higher Power...or have faith... like I do.
I just know... that the Earth is beyond lovely... and a miracle... for me...for you...and for everyone to honor and take care of... because the truth is...the Earth is home. And worthy of nurturing...and being mindful of. No matter what you believe or don't believe created all this wonder...and life sustaining place called Earth.
This month of May... the month we honor Mother's Day...stop for a minute... and become more aware how much Mother Earth... gives you...and your loved ones each day. It is amazing when you stop and ponder... just how MUCH you receive each day from the Earth... that keeps you and those you care about...alive.
Start giving back... and nurture Earth. Do your best to cut back... stop doing...and all together cut out things and products that are harmful to the air...water...land... people and all other living creatures.
Care for the Earth...as you would your own children or family pets... beginning today... and by doing so...you will be making a difference in the world...for today...tomorrow...and for future generations.
Blessings,
Victoria
NATIVE AMERICAN WISDOM
Will you ever begin to understand the meaning
of the very soil beneath your feet? From a grain of
sand to a great mountain, all is sacred. Yesterday
and tomorrow exist upon this continent.
We natives are guardians of this sacred place.
Peter Blue Cloud Mohawk
*** My lovely friend Bea Kunz is an Earth steward in the highest form. Please visit her website and sign up for her monthly newsletter... for a wealth of trusted information about organic and natural living...and helping the environment. www.sagehillfarmsandvintagestore.com
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN MAY
May Day...May 1st...May 5th... Cinco e Mayo...May 10th... Census Day... in Canada ... May 11th...Mother's Day...May 26th...Memorial Day
FACTS ABOUT MAY
FLOWERS... The lily of the valley...rose...and foxglove
GEMS... emerald...malachite...and amber
FULL MOON...is May 14th
DID YOU KNOW?
In ancient Greece it was the custom to perfume every part of the body with a different scent...and mint was used on the arms.
Mint leaves are said to relieve the pain caused by bee and wasp stings.
MOTHER'S DAY CELEBRATION
This Mother's Day... give your Mom life affirming gifts... that will last and make a positive impact. Below are some ideas that would make for lovely... more natural gifts for Mom.
Plant a tree in your Mother's honor or a sweet herb garden.
Take your Mom to a local farmer's market... and purchase organic seasonal veggies and fruits for her to take home and eat.
Take your Mom out to eat at a farm to table eatery... these are amazing and the food is so healthy.
Fill a recycled basket with organic hair and skin products for your Mom...and tuck into the basket a pretty fragrant soy candle...for her to enjoy also.
Buy her a book that has a positive message...and encourages her to grow or heal.
MOTHER YOURSELF
Take time for yourself... and savor alone time as well.
Take time to nurture your feminine spirit... with creative pursuits that you love.
Exercise... and dedicate yourself to this self-care practice.
Meet new people.
Let go of toxic...negative people in your life.
Learn to meditate.
Garden.
Get to know yourself.
Pray.
Walk barefoot.
Eat when you are hungry.
Go to sleep when you are tired.
Read more.
Say "no" to others demands on you... more.
Fall in love with yourself.
Embrace your femininity.
Open yourself to receive.
Be mindful how and who you spend time with.
Be your own best friend.
Take long soaks.
Buy more flowers for yourself.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Plastic is not furniture... so clear out plastic furniture...and when you can...shop flea and antique markets for wood pieces to decorate your home with instead.
This month be sure to nurture your houseplants...by taking them outside...to completely hose off to rid of dust and pests...and give them some much needed fertilizer.
Take different sized recycled glass bottles and jars...and then fill them with different shaped leafs and branches you cut from your own yards.
Mop your floors with pure lemon essential oil...just add about 12 drops to a bucket of warm water...and then mop like you usually do. This wonder essential oil cuts grime and dirt...and your home will smell wonderful.
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
There are so many culinary uses for herbs...and mint is so easy to grow... do not be afraid of growing this versatile herb for yourself.
MINT SAUCE
a small bunch of mint
2 teaspoons sugar
1 tablespoon boiling water
1-2 tablespoons vinegar
Place the mint and sugar on a cutting board and chop finely.Put in a saucepan and add the boiling water.Stir until the sugar has dissolved.Stir in vinegar to taste.
Make at least 1 hour before serving.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Nurture yourself by slowing down... understanding you do not have to be perfect...or please everyone...or do it all.
Take long walks...by yourself...and just take in the beauty of nature.
Next time you see an elderly person with shopping bags... offer to put their bags in their car for them.
Unplug from your electronics for a day... and read...garden...or make a handcrafted item instead.
As I gaze out my kitchen window...into my backyard...I see life and beauty in every nook and corner. The big oak tree my husband planted when we bought this house 15 years ago... is huge now... so strong and beautiful it is... always faithful standing guard in our backyard. A few years ago... a honeysuckle vine found it's way into the branches... and taken root... amongst the leaves... and the honeysuckles fragrance perfumes the air... smelling like an exotic island paradise with each breath I take... when I venture into my yard.
My white roses dance daintily in the breeze... making me smile each time I gaze at them. I planted them myself... nurturing them each long... hot summer here in Texas... including sending them loving energy...and talking to them too... and they have survived... beautifully.
Squirrels dance and romp... under the oak tree...and climb the back fence... faster than I can blink my eyes...and give me constant chuckles... for they are natural clowns. I leave them food each day... unsalted sunflower seeds and nuts... and they stuff their cheeks with them...looking like they could pop...they are so full of the food I leave them.
My herbs... I grow... bring me the greatest pleasure. To me they are priceless Earth jewels...ready to pluck and pick for medicine... culinary use...and healing baths. Or to place in small glass vases...to decorate my home with.
I cannot help but feel a little sad for people who do not believe in a Higher Power... or a God... when I look out at my garden... or pulling weeds...or just sitting outside listening to the quiet sound nature makes. Something amazing...and all powerful and all loving created this immense beauty and wonder. It certainly wasn't humans... it was and has to be something MORE...something beautifully... incredibly... WONDERFUL.
But that's just my belief... in my heart...that I hold close. I do not judge anyone for what they think or feel... it is not my job...or my responsibility... to make others believe in a Higher Power...or have faith... like I do.
I just know... that the Earth is beyond lovely... and a miracle... for me...for you...and for everyone to honor and take care of... because the truth is...the Earth is home. And worthy of nurturing...and being mindful of. No matter what you believe or don't believe created all this wonder...and life sustaining place called Earth.
This month of May... the month we honor Mother's Day...stop for a minute... and become more aware how much Mother Earth... gives you...and your loved ones each day. It is amazing when you stop and ponder... just how MUCH you receive each day from the Earth... that keeps you and those you care about...alive.
Start giving back... and nurture Earth. Do your best to cut back... stop doing...and all together cut out things and products that are harmful to the air...water...land... people and all other living creatures.
Care for the Earth...as you would your own children or family pets... beginning today... and by doing so...you will be making a difference in the world...for today...tomorrow...and for future generations.
Blessings,
Victoria
NATIVE AMERICAN WISDOM
Will you ever begin to understand the meaning
of the very soil beneath your feet? From a grain of
sand to a great mountain, all is sacred. Yesterday
and tomorrow exist upon this continent.
We natives are guardians of this sacred place.
Peter Blue Cloud Mohawk
*** My lovely friend Bea Kunz is an Earth steward in the highest form. Please visit her website and sign up for her monthly newsletter... for a wealth of trusted information about organic and natural living...and helping the environment. www.sagehillfarmsandvintagestore.com
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN MAY
May Day...May 1st...May 5th... Cinco e Mayo...May 10th... Census Day... in Canada ... May 11th...Mother's Day...May 26th...Memorial Day
FACTS ABOUT MAY
FLOWERS... The lily of the valley...rose...and foxglove
GEMS... emerald...malachite...and amber
FULL MOON...is May 14th
DID YOU KNOW?
In ancient Greece it was the custom to perfume every part of the body with a different scent...and mint was used on the arms.
Mint leaves are said to relieve the pain caused by bee and wasp stings.
MOTHER'S DAY CELEBRATION
This Mother's Day... give your Mom life affirming gifts... that will last and make a positive impact. Below are some ideas that would make for lovely... more natural gifts for Mom.
Plant a tree in your Mother's honor or a sweet herb garden.
Take your Mom to a local farmer's market... and purchase organic seasonal veggies and fruits for her to take home and eat.
Take your Mom out to eat at a farm to table eatery... these are amazing and the food is so healthy.
Fill a recycled basket with organic hair and skin products for your Mom...and tuck into the basket a pretty fragrant soy candle...for her to enjoy also.
Buy her a book that has a positive message...and encourages her to grow or heal.
MOTHER YOURSELF
Take time for yourself... and savor alone time as well.
Take time to nurture your feminine spirit... with creative pursuits that you love.
Exercise... and dedicate yourself to this self-care practice.
Meet new people.
Let go of toxic...negative people in your life.
Learn to meditate.
Garden.
Get to know yourself.
Pray.
Walk barefoot.
Eat when you are hungry.
Go to sleep when you are tired.
Read more.
Say "no" to others demands on you... more.
Fall in love with yourself.
Embrace your femininity.
Open yourself to receive.
Be mindful how and who you spend time with.
Be your own best friend.
Take long soaks.
Buy more flowers for yourself.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Plastic is not furniture... so clear out plastic furniture...and when you can...shop flea and antique markets for wood pieces to decorate your home with instead.
This month be sure to nurture your houseplants...by taking them outside...to completely hose off to rid of dust and pests...and give them some much needed fertilizer.
Take different sized recycled glass bottles and jars...and then fill them with different shaped leafs and branches you cut from your own yards.
Mop your floors with pure lemon essential oil...just add about 12 drops to a bucket of warm water...and then mop like you usually do. This wonder essential oil cuts grime and dirt...and your home will smell wonderful.
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
There are so many culinary uses for herbs...and mint is so easy to grow... do not be afraid of growing this versatile herb for yourself.
MINT SAUCE
a small bunch of mint
2 teaspoons sugar
1 tablespoon boiling water
1-2 tablespoons vinegar
Place the mint and sugar on a cutting board and chop finely.Put in a saucepan and add the boiling water.Stir until the sugar has dissolved.Stir in vinegar to taste.
Make at least 1 hour before serving.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Nurture yourself by slowing down... understanding you do not have to be perfect...or please everyone...or do it all.
Take long walks...by yourself...and just take in the beauty of nature.
Next time you see an elderly person with shopping bags... offer to put their bags in their car for them.
Unplug from your electronics for a day... and read...garden...or make a handcrafted item instead.
Sunday, April 20, 2014
APRIL 20th 2014
TRADITIONS OF EARTH DAY musings...
This Earth Day gather your family together and have an Earth Day circle... talking and sharing about the need of caring for our beautiful planet. Because the truth is...if you take care of the Earth and her resources...you are also taking care of yourself...and future generations.
After you and your family share your thoughts on taking care of the planet and your concerns about pollution etc. ask each family member to make a promise to themselves...and to the Earth...about one thing they can do each day to care for the environment...and have them write that down on a piece of paper you have provided.
Make each one... responsible for their written promise and hold them accountable... including yourself.
After you have your Earth circle... take the family for a walk around your neighborhood... and pick up any trash you might find... and take any items that could be recycled... and place in your recycling bins.
Earth Day is a perfect day to look into using natural organic products to clean and disinfect your home. Do your research... on essential oils and herbs... to clean with and for use of pest control inside and outside of your home...including pet areas. You will be amazed how easy...affordable and simple it is to make your own cleaning products... once you have the basic ingredients and supplies.
Natural...organic fertilizers are are easily available now...so please start using them on your lawns and flower beds instead of harmful...toxic chemicals...that are polluting our water systems and the land.
And of course it goes without saying to monitor how much gas you consume by constantly running errands and driving unnecessarily. Do all your errands in one area...in one driving time...and resist the urge to drive without it having to be a necessary trip in your car.
Make or purchase handcrafted gifts for your family and friends... instead of buying all those cute...cheap products made in China...that end up in landfills.
Make a enlightened decision to STOP using paper plates ...plastic cups and plastic silverware. It is just wrong to use these...use your own china or at least use recycled... green picnic ware please.
Only buy local...fresh and organic food...in season. Think before you buy those peaches grown and shipped from Chile etc.
If you want to redecorate your home...buy antique...flea or vintage stores...use Earth friendly paint...and put houseplants throughout your home...to balance out toxins and have better air quality in your home.
Respect yourself...others...and all living things...and practice mindful living.
Love and happy Earth Day,
Victoria
Monday, April 14, 2014
APRIL 14th
THE TRADITIONS of HONEY musings...
Honey is thought to be one of the oldest foods found on the planet... and will not ever spoil... which to me means it is a near perfect natural food... besides being ever so good to eat... as well as good for you too.
Besides being a great food source... it is also great for other uses around the house...including using for minor medicinal uses...and personal care.
Be sure to find and use local honey...to be sure to get pure honey...as some honey that is sold...is filtered ... which means all those good nutrients are gone...and fruit or corn fructose syrup might be added. So be sure to read the label.... before buying anything that is not pure honey.
Give bees a good home in your yards...and help bee colonies bounce back... from the recent decline of the last few years... by planting bee attracting plants in your yards. Lavender... thyme...mint...borage...bee balm... honeysuckle...and flowering bushes...are all good choices to attract these sweet creatures.
HONEY MASK
Oh my... who knew the wonders of using honey as a face mask... here is how you do it. Just pour about 2 tablespoons honey into a small glass bowl...and then gently dab the honey all over your face. Allow the honey to stay on your face about 15 minutes...and then using a clean...wet washcloth...that you have run warm water over...gently wipe off the honey. Rinse off with warm water...followed by a cold rinse.
That's it! Your skin will be so soft... and the honey will also pull out toxins from your skin.
BLEMISH POWER
If you have a pimple... just tab a bit of honey on it... and the honey will pull out the pimple.Now that is sweet!
HONEY HAIR SHINER
For a beautiful... shine to your hair... just combine 1 teaspoon honey to 4 cups warm water... and then pour over your hair... and DO NOT RINSE OUT.
HONEY BATH
For a soothing and healing bath... try adding 1 tablespoon honey... combined with 10 drops lavender essential oil...into your bath water...and then soak in calming bliss for at least 30 minutes.
Bee happy
Victoria
HONEY BURN BALM
Because honey has anti-inflammatory properties... pure honey can help heal minor burns. If you or someone you care about gets a burn...just place a cold compress on the area...run cold water over the burn...gently dry off...apply a coat of honey.. then cover with gauze. Apply fresh honey daily...until healed.
THE TRADITIONS of HONEY musings...
Honey is thought to be one of the oldest foods found on the planet... and will not ever spoil... which to me means it is a near perfect natural food... besides being ever so good to eat... as well as good for you too.
Besides being a great food source... it is also great for other uses around the house...including using for minor medicinal uses...and personal care.
Be sure to find and use local honey...to be sure to get pure honey...as some honey that is sold...is filtered ... which means all those good nutrients are gone...and fruit or corn fructose syrup might be added. So be sure to read the label.... before buying anything that is not pure honey.
Give bees a good home in your yards...and help bee colonies bounce back... from the recent decline of the last few years... by planting bee attracting plants in your yards. Lavender... thyme...mint...borage...bee balm... honeysuckle...and flowering bushes...are all good choices to attract these sweet creatures.
HONEY MASK
Oh my... who knew the wonders of using honey as a face mask... here is how you do it. Just pour about 2 tablespoons honey into a small glass bowl...and then gently dab the honey all over your face. Allow the honey to stay on your face about 15 minutes...and then using a clean...wet washcloth...that you have run warm water over...gently wipe off the honey. Rinse off with warm water...followed by a cold rinse.
That's it! Your skin will be so soft... and the honey will also pull out toxins from your skin.
BLEMISH POWER
If you have a pimple... just tab a bit of honey on it... and the honey will pull out the pimple.Now that is sweet!
HONEY HAIR SHINER
For a beautiful... shine to your hair... just combine 1 teaspoon honey to 4 cups warm water... and then pour over your hair... and DO NOT RINSE OUT.
HONEY BATH
For a soothing and healing bath... try adding 1 tablespoon honey... combined with 10 drops lavender essential oil...into your bath water...and then soak in calming bliss for at least 30 minutes.
Bee happy
Victoria
HONEY BURN BALM
Because honey has anti-inflammatory properties... pure honey can help heal minor burns. If you or someone you care about gets a burn...just place a cold compress on the area...run cold water over the burn...gently dry off...apply a coat of honey.. then cover with gauze. Apply fresh honey daily...until healed.
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR... HOME...HEARTH... AND HEART APRIL 2014
April musings...
It is always with deepest pleasure that I welcome April... as my wonderful daughter Aurora was born this month...in the wee hours of the morning.
I gave birth to her at home... in my bathroom actually... with the help of my mid-wife...my husband and my older daughter. I didn't choose this natural way of bringing forth new life into the world... because I had to... but because I wanted to... and because my soul asked me to do this. I know this might sound odd to you... but a soul does speak to a person... if you silent yourself to listen.
The month of April is a month of rebirth... and awakening to something bigger than yourself...that you have to still yourself to "listen" to.. for your guidance... direction...knowledge and wisdom... that only your soul...your heart...and the voice of The Higher Power... gently whispers to you.
That are your answers... for what you are seeking.
It seems to me... the more I seek... a meaningful life...a life of authenticity... that resonates with my inner core... the more I have come to understand that judging myself and others... is so wrong... if there is such a thing. Everyone seems to point fingers...or poke at... anything or anyone that doesn't fit into their way of doing things... or what they WANT.
I must admit... to be honest here... I do this too... but I have come to realize... it is because I am insecure in that moment... or fearful... instead of being connected to my heart.
As I move into my sixth decade here on this beautiful earth... I crave more and more... a peaceful life... harmony and a sense of meaning in my daily life. I want to strive to be "me" in the highest possible way... for myself... and to that whisper... that voice... that to me is the Creator of all things.
I am reminded each moment... to take that part of me... that trusted so deeply in my ability to birth my daughter without even an aspirin to dull the pain of childbirth... in my own bathroom ... in present time. To focus my energy on deeply trusting and having a faith that I am guided each living... breathing second... by a force... nudging me...forward... to what is right for me...and what is best for me.
I also understand... that not everyone will accept my choices...or support them...and although it would be great if they did... I do not expect it... or need approval from anyone...only my own.
Truth is...my inner voice... never fails me.
May this lovely month of April... be the perfect days and beautiful evenings... that you begin your journey of becoming still... of silent spaces to listen to your own voice... and reclaiming self- trust and growing your faith ... in something bigger than yourself...in whatever understanding that means to you.
You are stronger than you believe you are... more powerful...and so much more deserving... and you will find that knowledge when you still your mind and stand in silence.... and "listen" to the truth of your soul. Do not allow other people who judge you... or question what is right for you...keep you from your inner knowing... or your own answers for what you need or want to do. It is your life... honor that... and stand tall.
Work with the supportive energy and teachings of this month... to reclaim parts of you lost...hidden or just plain denied by you... and go within to seek your own truth...and rebirth your life.
Be the best you... on your own terms...guided by your own inner light... and re-create your life...from the "inside" out. Not because you have to... but because you want to.
Just listen.
Blessings to you,
Victoria
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN APRIL
April 15th...Passover begins... April 18th...Good Friday...April 20th...Easter
April 15th there will be a Lunar eclipse...on April 29th there will be a Solar eclipse
FACTS ABOUT APRIL
The flower of April is the daisy... and the sweetpea
Gems for this month are the ruby...and garnet
The Romans called this month Aprilis...a time of unfolding leaves and flowers
In Victorian times the 1st Sunday in April was Daffodil Sunday... a day set aside to give sick patients handpicked daffodils at local hospitals.
APRIL HANDCRAFTED PROJECT
There is something so nurturing about creating your own bath salts or oils...to use for your personal use or make as a gift to someone you care about. Below is a simple wonderfully scented Bath Salt with essential oils for you to enjoy.
APRIL BATH OIL
1 cup epsom salt
8 drops pure honeysuckle oil
8 drops pure rose oil
4 drops patchouli oil
Blend all ingredients in a glass bowl...then either use right away in a hot bath...or place in a glass container with a lid for future use.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Use pure Lemon essential oil to clean off your counter tops in your kitchen and bathrooms...leaving these areas squeaky clean... and your whole house smelling like the lovely scent of citrus.
Clean all the windows in your home... using a natural and organic window cleaner...and dry off with recycled newspaper.
Be sure to clean and sweep your front and back porches... for an inviting and dirt free welcome to your home.
Clean your washing machine this month...by running it with hot water...with 1 quart white vinegar...on an EMPTY cycle (no clothes or other items).
Make your own LAVENDER drier sheets...by purchasing muslin cotton bags...and filling them with dried Lavender... double tie the string to close the bag...and then throw these into the drier while drying clothes and towels. Your laundry... will smell like a lavender field!
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
Make your own herbal infused beverages this month...using lovely fresh organic herbs from your garden or local organic store...a real treat that you will love making and drinking too!
ROSEMARY LEMONADE
Wash off a handful (about 1 cup) of fresh rosemary leaves and stems.Place in a medium-size pan. Add water to cover and bring to a boil.Turn off heat....cover pan...and let mixture cool completely. Discard rosemary and strain liquid through a coffee filter...or even a paper towel. Make your favorite Lemonade recipe...adding the steeped rosemary water... a bit at a time.Serve with fresh lemon slices and small sprigs of fresh rosemary. Any leftover rosemary water can be stored in fridge for a few days. This rosemary water is strong so add to taste only.
ROSEMARY SPRINKLED FRUIT
The next time you want a real treat...or an easy dessert...just place fresh organic fruit into a bowl...that you have already cut or sliced and sprinkle just a bit of finely chopped organic rosemary on top... and serve. So very good...great as a healthy snack or as a company dessert too.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Begin each day... making a choice to be HAPPY.
Make a promise to yourself to stop JUDGING yourself and others.
Do deep breathing exercises each morning or evening... exhaling deeply negative thoughts or feelings...and inhale deeply... life affirming feelings and positive thoughts.
Plant a container garden...on your back porch...of herbs...tomatoes and lovely lettuce.
Bird watch.
Sit outside and feel the Sun.
Meditate or pray outside.
It is always with deepest pleasure that I welcome April... as my wonderful daughter Aurora was born this month...in the wee hours of the morning.
I gave birth to her at home... in my bathroom actually... with the help of my mid-wife...my husband and my older daughter. I didn't choose this natural way of bringing forth new life into the world... because I had to... but because I wanted to... and because my soul asked me to do this. I know this might sound odd to you... but a soul does speak to a person... if you silent yourself to listen.
The month of April is a month of rebirth... and awakening to something bigger than yourself...that you have to still yourself to "listen" to.. for your guidance... direction...knowledge and wisdom... that only your soul...your heart...and the voice of The Higher Power... gently whispers to you.
That are your answers... for what you are seeking.
It seems to me... the more I seek... a meaningful life...a life of authenticity... that resonates with my inner core... the more I have come to understand that judging myself and others... is so wrong... if there is such a thing. Everyone seems to point fingers...or poke at... anything or anyone that doesn't fit into their way of doing things... or what they WANT.
I must admit... to be honest here... I do this too... but I have come to realize... it is because I am insecure in that moment... or fearful... instead of being connected to my heart.
As I move into my sixth decade here on this beautiful earth... I crave more and more... a peaceful life... harmony and a sense of meaning in my daily life. I want to strive to be "me" in the highest possible way... for myself... and to that whisper... that voice... that to me is the Creator of all things.
I am reminded each moment... to take that part of me... that trusted so deeply in my ability to birth my daughter without even an aspirin to dull the pain of childbirth... in my own bathroom ... in present time. To focus my energy on deeply trusting and having a faith that I am guided each living... breathing second... by a force... nudging me...forward... to what is right for me...and what is best for me.
I also understand... that not everyone will accept my choices...or support them...and although it would be great if they did... I do not expect it... or need approval from anyone...only my own.
Truth is...my inner voice... never fails me.
May this lovely month of April... be the perfect days and beautiful evenings... that you begin your journey of becoming still... of silent spaces to listen to your own voice... and reclaiming self- trust and growing your faith ... in something bigger than yourself...in whatever understanding that means to you.
You are stronger than you believe you are... more powerful...and so much more deserving... and you will find that knowledge when you still your mind and stand in silence.... and "listen" to the truth of your soul. Do not allow other people who judge you... or question what is right for you...keep you from your inner knowing... or your own answers for what you need or want to do. It is your life... honor that... and stand tall.
Work with the supportive energy and teachings of this month... to reclaim parts of you lost...hidden or just plain denied by you... and go within to seek your own truth...and rebirth your life.
Be the best you... on your own terms...guided by your own inner light... and re-create your life...from the "inside" out. Not because you have to... but because you want to.
Just listen.
Blessings to you,
Victoria
WORLD TRADITIONS AND CELEBRATIONS IN APRIL
April 15th...Passover begins... April 18th...Good Friday...April 20th...Easter
April 15th there will be a Lunar eclipse...on April 29th there will be a Solar eclipse
FACTS ABOUT APRIL
The flower of April is the daisy... and the sweetpea
Gems for this month are the ruby...and garnet
The Romans called this month Aprilis...a time of unfolding leaves and flowers
In Victorian times the 1st Sunday in April was Daffodil Sunday... a day set aside to give sick patients handpicked daffodils at local hospitals.
APRIL HANDCRAFTED PROJECT
There is something so nurturing about creating your own bath salts or oils...to use for your personal use or make as a gift to someone you care about. Below is a simple wonderfully scented Bath Salt with essential oils for you to enjoy.
APRIL BATH OIL
1 cup epsom salt
8 drops pure honeysuckle oil
8 drops pure rose oil
4 drops patchouli oil
Blend all ingredients in a glass bowl...then either use right away in a hot bath...or place in a glass container with a lid for future use.
FEMININE LIVING TRADITIONS
...FOR YOUR HOME
Use pure Lemon essential oil to clean off your counter tops in your kitchen and bathrooms...leaving these areas squeaky clean... and your whole house smelling like the lovely scent of citrus.
Clean all the windows in your home... using a natural and organic window cleaner...and dry off with recycled newspaper.
Be sure to clean and sweep your front and back porches... for an inviting and dirt free welcome to your home.
Clean your washing machine this month...by running it with hot water...with 1 quart white vinegar...on an EMPTY cycle (no clothes or other items).
Make your own LAVENDER drier sheets...by purchasing muslin cotton bags...and filling them with dried Lavender... double tie the string to close the bag...and then throw these into the drier while drying clothes and towels. Your laundry... will smell like a lavender field!
...FOR YOUR HEARTH
Make your own herbal infused beverages this month...using lovely fresh organic herbs from your garden or local organic store...a real treat that you will love making and drinking too!
ROSEMARY LEMONADE
Wash off a handful (about 1 cup) of fresh rosemary leaves and stems.Place in a medium-size pan. Add water to cover and bring to a boil.Turn off heat....cover pan...and let mixture cool completely. Discard rosemary and strain liquid through a coffee filter...or even a paper towel. Make your favorite Lemonade recipe...adding the steeped rosemary water... a bit at a time.Serve with fresh lemon slices and small sprigs of fresh rosemary. Any leftover rosemary water can be stored in fridge for a few days. This rosemary water is strong so add to taste only.
ROSEMARY SPRINKLED FRUIT
The next time you want a real treat...or an easy dessert...just place fresh organic fruit into a bowl...that you have already cut or sliced and sprinkle just a bit of finely chopped organic rosemary on top... and serve. So very good...great as a healthy snack or as a company dessert too.
...FOR YOUR HEART
Begin each day... making a choice to be HAPPY.
Make a promise to yourself to stop JUDGING yourself and others.
Do deep breathing exercises each morning or evening... exhaling deeply negative thoughts or feelings...and inhale deeply... life affirming feelings and positive thoughts.
Plant a container garden...on your back porch...of herbs...tomatoes and lovely lettuce.
Bird watch.
Sit outside and feel the Sun.
Meditate or pray outside.
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